This memory may seem to be about money, but it isn't really. I brought Terri's pension contributions up-to-date; put a new patio door in the flat; bought a new car for her; made some investments for her; and bought the lodge in joint names. Lyn put the flat in Terri's name as her profit from the shop business. All this was not about money, but about Terri feeling secure - and I am glad we did that for her. The plan was for me to go first, from prostate cancer, then Terry would sell my flat and be very comfortably off as a widow with half my pension in addition. How sad that the plan didn't work - but we tried, we did our best for her. ❤️💔