I should be happy that my prostrate cancer didn't make me ill when I needed to look after and nurse Terri: How awful it would have been if I were unable to care for and nurse her when she needed me most! The same for my bladder operations: being confined to hospital when Terri needed me would have been disastrous. At least fate allowed me to look after Terri, care for her and nurse her at that most important time. 😊